Tuesday, October 15, 2013

Something beautiful

There's something Beautiful 
About life
It seems to be like a great ocean filled with sparkling drops 
Each drop representing a memory 
A Moment 
And we are filled with the knowing that 
There is something to be 
Learned in each precious Moment 
Moments that happen 
Moments that we make happen
That leave behind poignant memories 
Yes memories come and 
Memories go 
But at every moment we have in our hands 
Power to make that Moment special 

How special one might ask? 
Special is after all subjective 
It really doesn't matter 
We only understand the 'specialness' of a moment after it's gone 
True 'specialness' is meant to be lived in the moment 
Because once it's gone it's gone 
Never to return 
And no amount of intelligence or physical strength can bring it back 

But for every moment that may seem 
To have gone wrong 
We are granted by the Great Giver 
Another potent moment 
To either make right or make Better 
Joyful moments filled with to the brim 
With Happiness 
With Hope 
With Laughter 
With Togetherness 
Most of all though, filled 
With Love 
Because Love is 
Something Beautiful 

Sunday, October 6, 2013

Who am I?

It's the age- old question; who am I? Who are we really? When we look in the mirror we just see one person staring back at us. Most of the time we like that person, I dare say even love that person. It's us after all. Give or take a few imperfections, we do love ourselves. No matter what we may have done or not done. Of course if you don't love yourself then now would be a good time to start. You have everything to gain- not the least of which is confidence and a greater sense of self- esteem. 

So back to the question of who am I? Side-stepping the obvious, I believe we are a culmination of each and every experience we have been through thus far. Right from our childhood all the way to this present moment. The moment at which you're reading this hopefully intelligible prose of mine! If I had to delve into my background I could come up with a myriad of experiences that have led me to where I am now. For better or for worse. And our experiences are only as relevant, as real as our memories. It stands to reason that we define who we are by what we remember- which then logically leads to the thought that we are our memories. We are what we choose to remember. And this can be a truly empowering thought. 

We can choose to pick out memories that highlight our best side. We can choose to think differently about each memory- no matter how unpleasant it might have been. After all reality exists in our minds. A memory is truly just that- an imagining of something that happened in the past. If we can remember something so clearly in the past - then we can also re-create each memory in the present so that it enhances our present moment- thereby creating a much happier future. Instead of letting previous unhappy memories weigh us down, why not instead use that memory as a deterrent from ever having that experience re-occur? 

It's a choice, something that we do every day. It's a lifestyle too- a new way of using every experience to propel us forward rather than dragging us back. After all we are what we think. And therefore do. 

Esther @ www.soakupinfo.com/Esther